Sunday, December 29, 2013

Looking Forward



Because of this, since the day we heard about you, we haven’t stopped praying for you and asking for you to be filled with the knowledge of God’s will, with all wisdom and spiritual understanding. 10 We’re praying this so that you can live lives that are worthy of the Lord and pleasing to him in every way: by producing fruit in every good work and growing in the knowledge of God; 11 by being strengthened through his glorious might so that you endure everything and have patience; 12 and by giving thanks with joy to the Father. He made it so you could take part in the inheritance, in light granted to God’s holy people. 13 He rescued us from the control of darkness and transferred us into the kingdom of the Son he loves. 14 He set us free through the Son and forgave our sins.
                                                                                    Colossians 1: 9-14


I will never forget the day that I found out that my older sister was pregnant with my first niece.  September 6, 2008.  I was cooped up in my college dorm room and having a very rough day and was telling her about it online.  I don’t remember the details but I know my parents would be there that evening for a concert that I was playing in and for whatever reason I was not looking forward to it.  After telling her about everything that was going on she told me to hang on because she needed to talk to her husband real quick.  A few minutes later, my phone rang.  My sister and her husband were on the other end and asked if I wanted to know a secret? Right away, I knew.  I asked if she was pregnant and she tried to deny it at first and come up with these other things like they were getting another dog or they won the lottery, but her husband (who tires of our antics after a while) finally told her to just tell me the truth- that they were in fact pregnant.  They had just found out and hadn’t told anyone yet, but they figured that I needed something to make me feel better (and they wanted to tell someone).  I can only imagine how much their life changed when they found out because I felt my world flip upside down and right side up- I WAS GOING TO BE AN AUNT!! I had no idea if the baby would be a boy or a girl, but I knew that I loved it already and always would.  It was a good thing for my wallet that we didn’t find out that it was a girl until December because that is when I went crazy and spent about $300 in one day buying baby clothes, books, toys, and a diaper bag… and ate Ramen for the rest of the month.

It is crazy what news of a baby can cause.  In my case, finding out that I would be an Aunt in 8 short months changed everything.  Who cared why I was upset? Obviously it wasn’t important if I can’t remember today.  I couldn’t pay attention while I played in the concert that night.  I wanted to scream with excitement at dinner that night while my parents (who did not know yet) looked around at the cute babies in the restaurant and commented on how much they couldn’t wait to have a baby in the family again.  I prayed day and night for that little baby.  Without knowing anything about this baby, I loved it more than anything in the world already.

Now, that little baby is 4 years old and causes more trouble than I could have ever imagined.  Addison Riley.  The cutest, sweetest little girl.  When I look at Addison and her younger sister Emmalyn, I feel like I have a good idea of how Paul felt as he wrote to the Colossians.  Paul’s prayer at the opening of this morning’s text is much like the prayer that I would pray daily when I found out about both Addison and Emmalyn and still pray today.  This prayer is probably not unlike the prayer that you might have prayed for your own children, nieces and nephews, grand children, or even the children in our very own church- especially on Rally Day or when someone is baptized or confirmed.  Just as these new additions to our family changed our lives from the very moment which we heard about them, the addition of the church of Colossae changed Paul’s life and they were forever in his thoughts and prayers.

Today we find ourselves in a fun place- we celebrated the birth of Christ only four short days ago.  We waited and prepared for that day, beginning all the way back in October when we started working on our Advent devotion book.  December 1 we decorated this sanctuary and the halls of our church building.  We have heard beautiful music by the Bethlehem Bronze and other musicians every week of Advent.  The youth performed in a wonderful Christmas Pageant.  Finally, Christ came and we celebrated his birth and life as we worshiped together and spent time with family.  NOW, we begin to look forward.  Just as the first time parent begins to think about all that will be needed as the child grows up, the Grandparents begin to prepare their house for when that baby is no longer in the Pack-and-Play, and the Aunt plans all of the wonderful ways in which to spoil their niece or nephew- today we begin to think about how the life of this little baby in the manger has changed our lives and how we are called to live that out.

There is a quote from Presbyterian minister, Fred Rogers (most of you know him simply as Mister Rogers), that I think is very appropriate for a day like today- “Often when you think you are at the end of something, you are at the beginning of something else.” I have always loved that New Years Day is only a week after Christmas.  Is there a better way to transition from the celebration of the new baby into looking at the future? Many of us might be making New Year’s Resolutions right now.  Some might be resolving to go on the yearly diet while others might resolve to quit drinking so much.  Maybe our youth will resolve to spend more time studying or practicing their music and sports.  The kicker here is that this text calls us to a different kind of resolution.  This morning’s text is not unusual- Paul opens all of his letter’s giving thanks for the community which he is writing to; and most of his letters are directed toward a community having some kind of struggle.  This is not unlike where many of us find ourselves today.  Imagine that Paul has written this letter to YOU-

Dearest brother/ sister in Christ,
Since the day I heard about you, I haven’t stopped praying for you and asking for you to be filled with the knowledge of God’s will, with all wisdom and spiritual understanding.  I am praying this so that you can live a life that is worthy of the Lord and pleasing to him in every way: by producing fruit in every good work and growing in the knowledge of God;  by being strengthened through his glorious might so that you endure everything and have patience; and by giving thanks with joy to the Father.

Wow.  How would you respond to that??  That is the question that we find ourselves faced with today- 4 days after Christmas, and only 2 days before the new year.

How can WE, having heard and experienced the teachings and the unending love of that little baby in the manger, respond to this prayer? We pray it for everyone else, but have we ever taken the time to think about how it can play out in our own lives?

Over the course of the last four months, the youth have focused on the theme of “Gather Together”, discussing what it means to gather with people on social media, at school, in our congregation, and we are beginning to talk about gathering with people of other faiths and around the world.  Maybe this prayer speaks to them through this theme as they are filled with the knowledge and will of God to be part of the one single body of Christ.  In addition to our discussions in youth group, in a period of 4 months I have witnessed this congregation open it’s doors to the community through the Fall Festival in September- you came out in droves to help set-up, sell things, visit with our neighbors, and just show what it means to live as the body of Christ.  In October we opened the doors to 300 members of our Presbytery, rolling out the red carpet of hospitality and providing sacred space for worship and fellowship.  Almost immediately we went to work on a playground for the children and took 18 people to walk in the CROP Walk (only half of which were youth participants).  There is no question in my mind that this congregation knows how to begin to live out and to continue to learn the will of God.

As we start our new budget year, our different ministry teams might embody this prayer in another way.  The missions team might step back to look at our current missions and how we are responding to the will of God through those missions, and maybe looking to see how else we can do that.  The Christian Education team might look at new curriculum, studies, or formats that will help to move our congregation in a direction that is worthy of and pleasing to the Lord.

This can be a very intimidating endeavor, though.  How can we answer this powerful prayer? What makes us so capable of something so big?  The second verse of this morning’s hymn responds to just that, and is one that I regularly have stuck in my head-

Though I am small, my God, my all, you work great things in me, and your mercy will last from the depths of the past to the end of the age to be.  Your very name puts the proud to shame, and to those who would for you yearn, you will show your might, put the strong to flight, for the world is about to turn.

I can’t help but think that if we say a prayer for our loved ones, as powerful as Paul’s, we would not leave them hanging with no way to respond.  We pray that our children will grow up and know the love of God- do we keep them away from Church?  We pray that our children will be strong leaders- do we keep them from experiencing life? We want to do all that we can to help our children grow into our prayers- God has done nothing less.  God gave us everything that we need when God’s son was sent to us that Christmas night.  When we live our lives based on the teachings that child we will grow in knowledge of the will of God and the world truly will turn.

As I continue to think about my two nieces, I don’t just pray that they will grow in the love of God and know God’s will, but that they will continue to dream of the day when all of us know just that.  The way we choose to respond to Paul’s prayer can do just that.

As we think about our resolutions for 2014, let’s move the focus away from our weight or bad habits.  Yes, maybe things need to change in those areas, but we need to do so much more.  Let’s begin to think about how we can live a life that is worthy of that little baby who came to us in a stable full of animals.  People waited for him for years, unsure of what to expect- just as I remember waiting for my first niece, having no clue what being an Aunt would bring me.  People prayed for him before he came, people were so excited that they traveled from all corners of the land to see him, and they continued to pray for him.  Following his death, people lived out his teachings in new ways and that is where we find this prayer.  The church was a baby and Paul, having changed his own life to begin to live and grow in the knowledge of God, is praying for the young church.  While the church may have been around for a few years today, this prayer is still for us.  A prayer for the Church universal, and a prayer for every individual.

This coming year, I resolve to live a life more focused on God.  I resolve to spend more time in personal devotion and study and I resolve to continue to reach out to my brothers and sisters in Christ.  I resolve to know that I do not go at this alone, but that God and my church are by my side all of the way.  I resolve to share my love and faith with all of those around me so that they and you can also grow in the knowledge of love of God.  I resolve to continue to dream of the day when the whole world responds to the Lord in a pleasing way and fulfills the Will of God.

What will WE resolve to do as a church and part of the body of Christ, the one whom we have spent so much time preparing for and celebrating?

What will you resolve to do individually?